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The Ultimate Checklist for Starting Your Divorce

Divorce is a significant life transition that can feel overwhelming. From legal considerations to financial preparations, taking the right steps early on can help you navigate the process more smoothly. This checklist will guide you through the critical first steps of starting your divorce, ensuring you’re informed and prepared.
Taking the First StepsGather InformationKnowledge is power, especially during a divorce. Familiarize yourself with the divorce laws in your state, as each jurisdiction has different requirements regarding residency, property division, and child custody. Court websites often provide helpful resources, or you can consult a divorce attorney to understand your rights and options.
Consider Your Legal OptionsDivorce doesn’t always have to be adversarial. Depending on your situation, you may consider mediation or a collaborative divorce, which can help resolve matters more amicably and cost-effectively than traditional litigation.
Hire a Divorce AttorneyEven if your divorce seems straightforward, consulting an experienced divorce attorney is essential. A lawyer can help you understand the legal process, protect your rights, and ensure that paperwork is properly filed and deadlines are met.
Financial Preparation
  • Inventory Your Finances: Gather financial documents, including tax returns, bank statements, credit reports, mortgage documents, investment records, and pay stubs.
  • Separate Your Finances: Open individual bank accounts and credit cards if necessary. Determine how joint accounts, debts, and assets will be handled during the process.
  • Understand Property Division: Depending on your state’s laws, marital property may be divided equitably (fairly) or equally (50/50). Understanding how assets and debts are typically divided can help you prepare.
Protecting Yourself and Your Loved OnesSecure Important DocumentsMake copies of essential documents such as:
  • Birth certificates
  • Marriage licenses
  • Passports
  • Social Security cards
  • Insurance policies
  • Property deeds and vehicle titles
Store them securely in a safe deposit box or a cloud storage service for easy access when needed.
Child Custody ConsiderationsIf you have children, their well-being should remain the top priority. Consider:
  • Temporary custody arrangements
  • A parenting plan that prioritizes stability and their best interests
  • Consulting a family law attorney to understand custody laws in your state
Update Legal Documents
  • Review Your Will & Estate Plan: Update your will, power of attorney, and beneficiary designations on life insurance and retirement accounts to reflect your new circumstances.
  • Adjust Insurance Policies: Review health, auto, and life insurance policies to ensure coverage aligns with your needs post-divorce.
Maintain Healthy CommunicationWhile divorce can be emotionally charged, maintaining clear, factual communication with your spouse can make the process more efficient. If direct conversations are difficult, consider using written communication or legal mediation.
You're Not Alone
Divorce is a challenging journey, but with the right planning and support, you can move forward with confidence. If you need guidance on the legal process or want to understand your rights, consulting an experienced divorce attorney is the best step you can take.
Need professional legal guidance? Contact Jill today to discuss your case and learn how she can help you navigate your divorce with clarity and confidence.


​JILL KAUFMAN, THERAPIST, DIVORCE COACH, MEDIATOR & CO-PARENTING EXPERT

I'll help You navigate the challenges of divorce with clarity and come out stronger. I'LL BE YOUR STRATEGY PARTNER SO THAT you control your divorce, save time and money, decrease the conflict & protect your children. I'll help you determine what's important to you and your family, you'll feel less LOST and overwhelmed and more empowered and at peace.

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